Here's a question you don't get every day... "How would you like to be my second wife?" I never imagined I would get so many proposals from random strangers in Ghana. I sometimes get tired of all the attention the color of my skin brings. As flattering as professions of love from complete strangers are, I can only come up with so fake phone numbers.
Surprisingly, polygamy is still practiced in Ghana. Usually in more rural communities. I have asked several kids that have come from families with multiple wives, but still can't quite seem to figure out how that could ever work. An old man the other day told me to "try and come by his house later..." I don't think he was talking about a game of scrabble either.
They are never threatening, I don't ever feel unsafe, just feel like blending in a bit more sometimes. I have gotten used to stares, and shouts of "obruni," and I have lost track of how many proposals. There are days I just wish I could travel somewhere without being noticed... It would be nice to not draw attention for once. Especially since it is attention just based on my skin color and assumptions of the money that goes with it. The only perks are that I do often get free tro-tro fares, directions and advice, as well as the opportunity to tell plenty of fake husband stories thanks to the whole single white female situation.